This is the 3rd part of the series “2017 Questions”, where I attempt to address memorable questions I was asked during 2017. Initially, I planned to finish the series last year but then here we are. However, I believe it’s not too late to learn, reflect, and share the lessons. Feel free to check the 1st entry here and the 2nd entry here.
Last November 13, when a brother in Christ wanted to read the “Pilgrim’s Progress”, he thought to borrow from a “reformed” family a summarized version of the book entitled Dangerous Journey, which is highly recommended for bedtime stories and for people who are fond of reading books with pictures. For the benefit of the reader, I would like to identify those on quotes and end quotes in this entry as follows:
“Pilgrim’s Progress” – a classic allegorical book written by John Bunyan during the 17th century, a story about a man whose name is Christian. The story starts with him being brought into conviction after reading a book, symbolically the Bible, and revolves primarily about his journey towards the Celestial City, symbolically heaven. A book usually recommended by the Reformed Christian group.
“Reformed” – a minority group who, by grace, have come to read, study, and faithfully-yet-not-perfectly apply the mandates of the Word in every aspect of their lives. Be it in how they conduct their weekly worship services, keeping the sanctity of the sabbath day, or even the music they listen to. This particular group is not fond of bearing the title, yet personally distinguished in this post only to inform the reader of their existence.
We then found ourselves invited to dinner in their house, which turned out to be a night of friendly interrogation, barraging us with a series of questions such as “how did you two meet?”, “how did you come to know Reformed theology?”, and “so what changed?”. To which I replied respectively, “at work…”, “from my leader…”, and “I better understood the doctrines (e.g., T.U.L.I.P.)…”. A short pause occurred after my last answer and the conversation went on merrily as expected, as it is always a pleasure to spend time with the household of faith.
After that night, I pondered on that short pause. I thought I answered every question properly only to realize that there was more to the last question than what I initially thought. Upon contemplating over the question, I found these follow up questions helpful for a more elaborate answer and personal word definitions to align my thoughts with the reader:
What changed in your mindsets?
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” – Romans 12:2
Mindsets refer to our predisposition on ideas, evident on our discussions on what we believe on certain topics. We know our mind is set when we cannot be convinced otherwise of other people’s opinions unless another persuades us with conclusive evidence that they are right and that we aren’t. This comes to mature overtime with our experiences and thorough study.
If you believe Jesus is exclusively the only way to eternal life, it’d be hard to believe that you also believe in Buddhism. As initially you come to believe both in luck and God’s sovereignty, when the two cannot coexist.
What changed in your values?
“And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.” – Ezekiel 36:26
Values refer to our heart’s core motivations, implicitly embedded in our day to day choices. We know our true values by where we intently invest the things we consider valuable (e.g., time, money, emotions, and thoughts).
The things that once excite your heart now bores you. The things that once bores you now excites your heart. The God you once hate you now love. The sin you once love you now hate. Rationally speaking, one cannot simply be at ease in saying he loves both. One shall inevitably love one and abhor the other.
What changed in your perspectives?
“Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good!
Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him!” – Psalm 34:8
Perspectives refer to our worldviews, mutually influenced by our mindsets and values. These ideas and motivations progressively shape our preferences with respect to our senses and, more importantly, in how we view this life collectively – past, present, future.
The history lessons you once despised, you are now able to appreciate as it relates with current events. The isolated checklist of tasks you cross out each day, you are now able to perceive in light of eternity. The uncertainties you once had with the future, you are now able to see God’s Word to be a sure and steady guide. Through it all, with lenses of faith, one grows convinced that God’s sovereign hand is undoubtedly upon providence.
Nonetheless, to leave with claims of these internal reforms divorced from any tangible manifestation will only result to inconsistency between faith and practice, which leaves us to the next question.
What changed in your lifestyle?
“Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship.” – Romans 12:1
Lifestyle refers to our way of living out the things we’ve come to truly embrace, demonstrated in every facet of one’s life. As the saying goes “easier said than done”, it is here then where the genuineness of the person’s claims is put to test.
This primarily reflects on the time you spend reading, praying, meditating, applying the Word which includes how you approach God [Hebrews 7:24-25], how you deal with people [Galatians 6:10], how you labor [Colossians 3:23-25], how you manage your finances [Romans 13:8], how to defend the faith [1 Peter 3:15], so on and so forth [Deuteronomy 6:4-9], and yes, even how you dress [1 Timothy 2:9-10].
We live in an age where professions of faith in Christ are taken lightly. Where the great doctrines of God are held aside as though they have of little importance and no practical implication. Disheartening as it is, we find God’s reminder through Paul:
“All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.” – 2 Timothy 3:16-17
“Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” – Philippians 2:12-13